Nancy Sheerin asked:


DATELINE: NORWELL, MASS…Valentine’s Day is a day for couples, as Brenan McGarrigle knows only too well. The Right One dating service’s matchmaker is celebrating her silver anniversary with the company – on Valentine’s Day.

With approximately 600 marriages to her credit, Ms. McGarrigle has been introducing compatible singles to each other and launching great relationships for 25 years.



Labor of Love

When Ms. McGarrigle first started working with The Right One, she wore many hats, from matchmaker to sales rep and administrator. She worked her way up to District Manager and frequently traveled to the company’s offices located around the New England area. Desiring to spend more time with her family and cut back on traveling, Ms. McGarrigle became a Relationship Consultant at The Right One, and now makes matches, obtains feedback, gives advice and “keeps members positive, hopeful and realistic” about finding “the right one”.



“I started matchmaking right out of school and I can’t imagine doing anything else to make such a difference in people’s lives,” noted Ms. McGarrigle.

Ms. McGarrigle studied to be a social worker in college, graduating from University of New Hampshire with a BA.

According to Ms. McGarrigle, “Being a matchmaker is definitely more appealing. I have the privilege of helping people who have a lot going for them who are just missing someone with whom to share their lives. There really is someone out there for everyone and I love what I do.”



A native of Westport, CT, Ms. McGarrigle resides in Norwell with her husband Tom and children Martin, Cole and Holly. In her spare time, she volunteers at the Norwell schools.

Now catering to more than 300,000 members at over 60 locations throughout North America, The Right One and Together Dating are the largest brick and mortar dating services in the industry The Right One and Together Dating offer a more consistent product, a greater number of potentially compatible mates and added value of flexibility in transferring memberships to another geographic region.

Romantic Locations

The Right One’s offices and affiliates located throughout the United States include: California (San Diego); Colorado (Glendale); Florida (Miami); Georgia (Atlanta); Kansas (Wichita and Overland Park); Illinois (Downers Grove, Rockford and Bloomington); New Jersey (Cherry Hill, Hackensack); Massachusetts (Norwell, Newton, Shrewsbury and Woburn); Nebraska (Omaha and Lincoln); Pennsylvania (King of Prussia, Pittsburgh and Monroeville); Rhode Island (Warwick); Texas (Dallas, Austin); and Wisconsin (Madison, Appleton, Brookfield).

North American locations and affiliates of Together are: California (Encino, Irvine, Los Angeles, Upland); Florida (Palm Beach, Vero Beach); Georgia (Savannah); Indiana (Ft. Wayne, Indianapolis, South Bend); Kentucky (Lexington, Louisville); Louisiana (New Orleans); Maryland (Columbia, Frederick); Minnesota (Minneapolis); Nevada (Reno); New Hampshire (Hooksett, Nashua, Portsmouth and Salem); New Jersey (Bridgewater, Clark, Colts Neck and Lawrenceville); Ohio (Cincinnati); Pennsylvania (Mechanicsburg); South Carolina (Greenville); South Dakota (Sioux Falls); Texas (San Antonio, Beaumont and Houston) and Virginia (Falls Church).

For more information about The Right One and Together Dating, please visit their websites at www.therightone.com and www.togetherdating.com or call (800) 818-DATE (3283).



LEVERICH

Nancy Sheerin asked:


According to Paul A. Falzone, CEO of The Right One and Together Dating, the largest brick-and-mortar dating service in the world, as well as online hybrid eLove.com,

“Having a successful, long distance relationship is possible. It’s important that you both understand what’s involved and that you’re dedicated to working at communicating.”

He continued, “Everything is harder to do at a distance - loving as well as fighting. Arguing over the phone is tough because you don’t have the benefit of seeing your partner’s face or eyes. And, you aren’t able to reassure each other with a hug, kiss or loving touch.”

You both must make a real effort. Even more so than couples who see each other all the time. The old adage “out of sight; out of mind” holds true in long distance relationships if you allow all forms of communication to lapse.



Falzone shares his tips on making a long-distance relationship work:

• Talk to each other every day. Can’t reach one another with a phone call? Try e-mail, IM or text messaging. When you’re stuck in a meeting halfway across the world, it’s always heartwarming to receive a loving text message on your Blackberry or cell phone from your sweetheart. Set aside a certain time, every day, to connect with each other.

• Give a little something… mail a gift; write a love song; send a balloon-o-gram; order lunch and have it delivered to your honey. Just make it happen. You’re not physically together all the time to enjoy those little extras that your sweetheart might do for you - like bringing you a latte made just the way you like it. Your sweetie will feel cherished knowing that you’re thinking of her/him enough to send a special surprise.

• In-person, online. From photos to video clips and web cams, take advantage of technology to keep you close to the one you love until you meet again.



• Visit each other. Or, if you are a significant distance apart and travel expenses are exorbitant, plan a romantic getaway and meet each other half-way. Being with each other as often as possible (even if it’s only once every two months) will reinforce the bond between you.

Now catering to more than 300,000 members at over 60 locations throughout North America, The Right One and Together Dating are the largest brick and mortar dating services in the industry along with elove.com, their online hybrid. The Right One, Together Dating and elove.com offer a more consistent product, a greater number of potentially compatible mates and added value of flexibility in transferring memberships to another geographic region.

Romantic Locations

The Right One’s offices and affiliates located throughout the United States include: California (San Diego); Colorado (Glendale); Florida (Miami); Georgia (Atlanta); Kansas (Wichita and Overland Park); Illinois (Downers Grove, Rockford and Bloomington); New Jersey (Cherry Hill, Hackensack); Massachusetts (Norwell, Newton, Shrewsbury and Woburn); Nebraska (Omaha and Lincoln); Pennsylvania (King of Prussia, Pittsburgh and Monroeville); Rhode Island (Warwick); Texas (Dallas, Austin); and Wisconsin (Madison, Appleton, Brookfield).

North American locations and affiliates of Together are: California (Encino, Irvine, Los Angeles, Upland); Florida (Palm Beach, Vero Beach); Georgia (Savannah); Indiana (Ft. Wayne, Indianapolis, South Bend); Kentucky (Lexington, Louisville); Louisiana (New Orleans); Maryland (Columbia, Frederick); Minnesota (Minneapolis); Nevada (Reno); New Hampshire (Hooksett, Nashua, Portsmouth and Salem); New Jersey (Bridgewater, Clark, Colts Neck and Lawrenceville); Ohio (Cincinnati); Pennsylvania (Mechanicsburg); South Carolina (Greenville); South Dakota (Sioux Falls); Texas (San Antonio, Beaumont and Houston) and Virginia (Falls Church).

For more information about The Right One and Together Dating, please visit their websites at www.therightone.com, www.togetherdating.com , and www.elove.com or call (800) 818-DATE (3283).



CARMONA

Nancy Sheerin asked:


At first glance, you’re impressed with the profiles of several attractive, successful singles. But, what your friend failed to tell you is that what you see online, isn’t always what you get in person.

According to Paul A. Falzone, CEO of The Right One and Together Dating, the largest brick-and-mortar dating service in the world, “Online dating sites are used by the honest and dishonest alike. Men and women use the anonymity of the Web to lie about their age, appearance, name and even gender. For example, cheating spouses will use online dating sites to hook up with someone when they go out of town. It’s important to be aware of the perils of online dating before you get burned.”



Falzone alerts online daters of the red flags which signal potential dates to avoid:

R U free 2nite? The “texter” who has a few seconds to send text messages, but is always too busy or not available to actually chat on the phone or via email. This type likes communication to be kept to a minimum, unless s/he initiates it. Dates are often made and cancelled at the last minute with a variety of excuses used. S/he is often out of town a lot and inaccessible. These are common signs of someone who is not single and/or not being honest with you. Move on. You can do much better.

Beauty or beast? Beware of dishonesty through photo misrepresentation. Note that a good profile usually provides more than one photo of that person. If the photo looks too professional, chances are, it is – and perhaps even “borrowed” from somewhere else. And yes, there are people who deliberately post their high school photo from 15 years ago to attract your interest.

Think you hit the jackpot when you get a nice response with a good-looking photo? One of the ways competing online dating sites draw you in is by responding to you with profiles of “beautiful people” from another dating site. After you’ve clicked over to that site and signed up to meet that gorgeous creature, oftentimes you’ll find they don’t even exist. Save your time and money by responding to those who are members of your dating site.

Little lies. So you recently arranged to meet that single, 6’4”, trim and muscular, brown-haired former college basketball captain whom you found online. Upon meeting in person, you find out that the only thing true in his description of himself was his hair color. Some believe that telling “little lies” on their profile with regard to a couple inches in height or a couple pounds in weight won’t matter. Be aware that those who misrepresent themselves on the “little things” may have no problem lying about “bigger things” such as their marital status and age. Don’t settle for what you read in a profile. Verify the information they have offered by asking about their age, relationship status, height and weight. They may refuse to answer your questions or they may provide different information. Or, everything may measure up. Regardless, you’ll have a better idea of that person’s honesty and whether or not you really want to meet him/her.

The “put down”. Avoid the online profile that disrespects and rips an ex-lover to shreds or simply informs you of those aspects s/he doesn’t want in a date. For example, “looking for someone without issues - unlike my fat, drunk ex.” Or, “if you’re needy, jealous and selfish, look elsewhere”. These are profiles that signal potential anger issues. Statements such as these come from someone who has recently ended a relationship or is emotionally scarred from a past relationship and really not happy. Leave them be. You don’t need to be their sounding board or rebound date. They’re not ready to date now and won’t be until they can move on.

Now catering to more than 300,000 members at over 60 locations throughout North America, The Right One and Together Dating are the largest brick and mortar dating services in the industry The Right One and Together Dating offer a more consistent product, a greater number of potentially compatible mates and added value of flexibility in transferring memberships to another geographic region.

Romantic Locations

The Right One’s offices and affiliates located throughout the United States include: California (San Diego); Colorado (Glendale); Florida (Miami); Georgia (Atlanta); Kansas (Wichita and Overland Park); Illinois (Downers Grove, Rockford and Bloomington); New Jersey (Cherry Hill, Hackensack); Massachusetts (Norwell, Newton, Shrewsbury and Woburn); Nebraska (Omaha and Lincoln); Pennsylvania (King of Prussia, Pittsburgh and Monroeville); Rhode Island (Warwick); Texas (Dallas, Austin); and Wisconsin (Madison, Appleton, Brookfield).

North American locations and affiliates of Together are: California (Encino, Irvine, Los Angeles, Upland); Florida (Palm Beach, Vero Beach); Georgia (Savannah); Indiana (Ft. Wayne, Indianapolis, South Bend); Kentucky (Lexington, Louisville); Louisiana (New Orleans); Maryland (Columbia, Frederick); Minnesota (Minneapolis); Nevada (Reno); New Hampshire (Hooksett, Nashua, Portsmouth and Salem); New Jersey (Bridgewater, Clark, Colts Neck and Lawrenceville); Ohio (Cincinnati); Pennsylvania (Mechanicsburg); South Carolina (Greenville); South Dakota (Sioux Falls); Texas (San Antonio, Beaumont and Houston) and Virginia (Falls Church).

For more information about The Right One and Together Dating, please visit their websites at www.therightone.com and www.togetherdating.com or call (800) 818-DATE (3283).



PRESTIA

Francis Githinji asked:


Wichita is a city in the United States that is well known for manufacturing aircrafts. Its also known as the Air Capital. It has humid summers and dry winters. The telephone were long discovered and I bet no one ever thought they would be used for datinng. Wichita telephone dating has many singles chatting day and night. Some of them chat for fun and have no intention of meeting the person they chat with but others are serious about it and would like to meet at least one of the people they are chatting with. You can chat to as many people as you want. Its more like computer dating the only difference is that you use a telephone or a computer connected to a telephone dating service.

Just like online chatting, Wichita telephone dating has also been protected from people who would want to use this channel to harm innocent people. You have to register to one of the telephone dating services by sending them a message or registering in their web site. After you register, they send you a special code which you have to feed on your phone or computer depending with what you are going to use to chat. You are then ready to start chatting for free. This means, your number will not be revealed to anyone and thus keeping you safe from predators. At no time of chatting should you reveal to the person about where you stay or work. You have to trust them enough to tell them such important things.

Some Wichita telephone dating companies offers people the chance of chatting with other singles in other companies. That way you can chat with as many people as you want and have a variety of people to choose from. Some of the telephone dating companies allow members to chat for free, others have toll free services. It can be an ideal way of dating people. You use very little money to chat with the singles, you have lots of fun chatting and what is more. Whenever you feel like you do not want to chat with any one you can ask the company to cut the person out or block the person from accessing your phone. You can also hang up on someone you feel you can not carry a conversation with.

When using Wichita telephone dating as a means of getting a date and to meet them, be very careful. Just like any dating service, the telephone dating service has also been invaded with scams. There are people out to take advantage of you and if you are not careful they will hurt you. When meeting with your date, organise to meet with them in a public place. Insist to take you home and not matter how you enjoyed the evening and they want to take you home, tell them you have a taxi waiting for you. Make sure you are also not followed home. You don’t want to have a stalker outside your home or following you around waiting to pounce on you.



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